Letters from a Muslim Woman -Start Here
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Salaam and Hello!
I’m so glad you’re here with me at Letters from a Muslim Woman. I share the joys and challenges of being a visibly Muslim woman from a multi-generational immigrant background. My writing lies at the intersection of identity, mental health, faith, and motherhood.
Maybe you’re curious about what it’s like to belong to a group of “others”. A group that is misunderstood whether willfully or subconsciously. Being a member of this group is something that affects your everyday, that colours your experiences and interactions. It touches on small inconveniences, like praying in stairwells and on buses, for lack of another space. And it touches on large injustices, like knowing a community member who’s been disappeared in the war on terror, and fearing the consequences of speaking out.
What to Expect
I write personal essays, memoir, and musings about my experiences as a second-generation Muslim Canadian.
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If you don’t know where to start, here are some of my favourite pieces
On the Muslim ritual of prayer: Pray Tell? Five Times a Day I find the Time and Place
On being confronted with another person with my name at work, after years of being the only one: The Name-esis
On Gaza, with Ramadan approaching: To be a Gazan during Ramadan
On Marcellus Williams and the children of Palestine: Witness
On life as a girl-sister: Tell me you have sisters
On worrying about the perception of hijab-wearing women: a bruised hijabi
On Mohamed Salah and the most common name in the world: Why I won’t call him Mo
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On the racism I experienced in high-school from a teacher who knew me: Hijabs and Handmaids' Bonnets, and Why Teachers Should Know the Difference
On work-life-genocide balance: No escape
On how my trip to Andalusia helped me see my Muslim identity in a multi-layered way, and how minorities often lose the complexity associated with their home cultures: Muslim in 3D: Looking Beyond Faith at Culture, History, and Civilization
On the confusion of missing pop-culture references as a third culture kid: When you don't understand the reference
On trying to come to peace with my fear of heights, and dying: Drawn to the Edge: A Reflection on My Fear of Heights
On Picasso, and whose art deserves to be seen: Picasso's Fame is the Product of Tastemakers
A song I wrote for Iraq over 20 years ago that, sadly, applies to Gaza this many years later: A Song for Iraq, A Song for Gaza
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Ask Me Anything
Letters from a Muslim Woman was born of the desire to shed light on my experiences as a practicing Muslim in Canada. To that end, I’ve decided to open up an AMA (ask me anything) feature here on this newsletter.
How it works
If you have a question about Islam, Islamic culture, my life as a Muslim, or Arab-Muslim culture, you can reply to the newsletter email in your inbox, leave your question in the comments below this post, or email me at nohabeshir@substack.com.
When I’ve gathered enough questions for a post, I’ll publish the answers. If you’re feeling shy and you want your question to remain anonymous, no problem! Let me know in the email. It goes without saying that not all Muslims are the same (there are 2 billion of us 🙃) so if I don’t know the answer to your question, or I’m not in a position to answer it, I will let you know. Feel free to ask whatever you’re curious about. I’ll try my best to answer anything you ask in good faith, even if it’s an awkward topic. That said, if something is hate-driven, I won’t engage.
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I would love it if you’d hit reply or leave a comment and let me know what brought you here. Tell me what you’d like to read more about. This newsletter is only just starting!
We found each other via your post on Inner life that I own with Sam Kahn and Joshua Doležal. So glad you joined us there and I now know that Joshua found you. Kudos to him for that. I hope to connect more deeply with you. ~ Mary
Thankful to Writers At Work for leading me to your writing, Noha. I’m very excited to learn by your lens the joys and aches of the hijabi experience.
My husband reverted to Islam after our son was born. We have been together since 2010- he reverted 2020. I’ve been both striving and struggling through the changes and I feel your compassion will be so helpful for me to learn and understand how to be a more supportive partner to him on this journey.